Your Perfect World - Psychology
So, I did this as a question in one of my quizzes, and I've been pretty interested in this type of psychology since my mom did this exercise with me a little while ago. Basically, I can tell you much about your personality based on how you envision your perfect world made of three things: up in the mountains, down in the fields, and out into the world.
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Chapter 5
Is All of this Important?
Yes.
Knowing where you are most comfortable—Up in the Mountains, Down in the Fields, Out in the World—helps you understand which part of yourself is strongest (logical, emotional, or business, respectively). Knowing this about yourself can help you in the way you approach things.
For example, my mother, who is almost entirely logical with no emotional and little business mind-frame, would rather approach something from a logical standpoint than an emotional one. If you gave her instructions that included phrases like "a little bit" or "until you feel like it", she would be frustrated, but instructions like "exactly this much" or "until exactly this time" are much more comfortable to her.
This isn't just for you, either. Knowing how other people think can go a long way. For example, a long time ago a woman's bulldog killed my mother's cat. My mom was furious, so she wrote the woman a letter explaining why she thought the dog shouldn't be allowed outside by itself. The letter was logical, like my mother, but the woman was almost entirely homey-hearthy, and she managed to brush off the letter.
So, instead, my mother wrote to this woman a long, emotional, gushing letter full of worry and concern about how the dog would be taken away if something like that happened again, and the woman understood this. That was how she thought; she could wrap her mind around emotion better than logic. She stopped letting her dog outside on its own.
Your social interactions can be a lot simpler with this mindset of knowing how the other person thinks. But sometimes it's hard to know how you think; your mind changes often, and so does your life. Your visual perfect world might transform, and you could become a different person. That's okay. It happens to everyone.
For me, I am mostly equal business, logic, and emotion. Some days I prefer to be Out in the World, and some days I retreat to my Mountain. Your mind isn't set in stone. Hopefully, though, you can understand it a little better now.
Disclaimer: This is an actual psychological practice, but I don't know what it's called. My mother taught it to me. If I got anything wrong, or am infringing any copyrighted information (somehow...) please let me know.
Knowing where you are most comfortable—Up in the Mountains, Down in the Fields, Out in the World—helps you understand which part of yourself is strongest (logical, emotional, or business, respectively). Knowing this about yourself can help you in the way you approach things.
For example, my mother, who is almost entirely logical with no emotional and little business mind-frame, would rather approach something from a logical standpoint than an emotional one. If you gave her instructions that included phrases like "a little bit" or "until you feel like it", she would be frustrated, but instructions like "exactly this much" or "until exactly this time" are much more comfortable to her.
This isn't just for you, either. Knowing how other people think can go a long way. For example, a long time ago a woman's bulldog killed my mother's cat. My mom was furious, so she wrote the woman a letter explaining why she thought the dog shouldn't be allowed outside by itself. The letter was logical, like my mother, but the woman was almost entirely homey-hearthy, and she managed to brush off the letter.
So, instead, my mother wrote to this woman a long, emotional, gushing letter full of worry and concern about how the dog would be taken away if something like that happened again, and the woman understood this. That was how she thought; she could wrap her mind around emotion better than logic. She stopped letting her dog outside on its own.
Your social interactions can be a lot simpler with this mindset of knowing how the other person thinks. But sometimes it's hard to know how you think; your mind changes often, and so does your life. Your visual perfect world might transform, and you could become a different person. That's okay. It happens to everyone.
For me, I am mostly equal business, logic, and emotion. Some days I prefer to be Out in the World, and some days I retreat to my Mountain. Your mind isn't set in stone. Hopefully, though, you can understand it a little better now.
Disclaimer: This is an actual psychological practice, but I don't know what it's called. My mother taught it to me. If I got anything wrong, or am infringing any copyrighted information (somehow...) please let me know.
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According to this, I hate everyone and I want to stay at home with super close friends and family forever. XD I was most comfortable in my fields, (which had soft, brown grass, a few dead trees here and there, a kind of golden sky, and was windy but still warm) and I wasn't uncomfortable in my mountains, (which were thick and foliage-y and like a jungle) but I would rather be in the fields. And my out in the world was a cobblestone city like Amsterdam, and there were very few people. ^-^
Sorry. I just didn't see the connection. I'll just leave it alone.
It's totally okay to voice your concerns and doubts. I was unaware that I was being confusing, and I understand how you're thinking but I don't really know how to explain it to you.
I know, it wasn't. But it wasn't how i feel about it either.
Alright, it's not an exact science, sorry.
A bit, but it doesn't make sense. Not what you're saying, but how could one's perfect world represent the real world? I mean, i personally tried to make mine everything that the real world isn't. It was the opposite of how i feel about the real world.
It doesn't have to be the real world, but how you design your world symbolizes how you feel about it. In making your world everything that the real world isn't, your world suggests that you dislike reality. And that's fine. In my perfect world, there was a tiny perfect town that represented everything I wanted out of the world; even if that isn't life, it does explain my displeasure at what life has brought me.
This is interesting. I'm a bit confused, though. So, the field is how you feel about nature itself, and your perfect world is how you feel about the actual world?
I guess it is a bit confusing. "Your perfect world" is supposed to contain three aspects, and those aspects represent how you feel about certain parts of your life. "Out in the world" is one of the three aspects; it represents the social, businessy aspect. The fields represent the mothering, caring aspect (how well you care for others).
Does that clear things up?
this confused me.......