Please don't skip this. Just take time to read it please. It's about a serious matter.
I decided that now its time for me to speak out. I recently spoke at a convention about victims of domestic abuse of which I was part of that group. Please read this. Repost if you like too.
Recently, I have been a victim of domestic abuse. It was an extremely unhealthy relationship and I am so happy and relieved to be out of. I hope to inspire other young ladies and girls who are in abusive relationships. I just want to say you CAN get out of it and it will be better you. I know the feelings of feeling like you need to stay and the control they may have over you. I know that you try to justify his actions as showing he loves you. Don't. You can't justify abuse at all. If he truly loved you he wouldn't turn to abuse you. It isn't love. Don't manipulate yourself into thinking what he's doing is okay because its not and never will be. The best thing you can do is get out of the relationship. You will find relief. Thank you for reading if you did.
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I heard about it, and I will tell my friends about you. I love your song 'Didn't mean it'! I sing too. :) I'm SOOO sorry for you. I couldn't imagine your situuation...
You are truly a great person. It is horrible you went through what you did. Nothing like that should ever happen....to anyone!
Thank you love :)
You go girl! I'm so sorry for what you went through.
I'm a friend who's gay, and he is totally standing up for domestic abuse since her sister got beaten by a man. He helped her :)
Awww that's wonderful.
awww i'm so sorry! u dont deserve that! no one does. ever!
A real man would never strike a woman
No they shouldn't and unfortunately at the time I tried justifying that as he really loved me which is not true.
You tell 'em girl!
Jasmine,
Just like what Kendall said he did not deserve you. I'm so glad that you stood up and spoke out because it takes a lot to do that. You deserve so much more! I love you doll! I will always have your back and so will your fans. Keep calm and be strong! :D
<3 Ky
Thanks so much Ky!!! I'm so glad to get that off my chest and I hope to inspire other girls in abusive situations. I'll have your back too :) I will!
Jas,
Jinsu never, EVER deserved you. You are way too beautiful, talented, and successful to have been treated like that. He may call himself a real man but we all know he's not. Real men treat girls, especially ones as sweet as you, right. You will find someone better and I will always have your back.
Love,
Kendall <3
Thanks Ken! It took me a while to realize that but now I do :) Hes not and never will be. And thanks that's sooo sweet :') and yes I realize that wasnt love and I'm stupid for thinking that. Thanks love! ;)
Aww!! :'( You didn't deserve to go through that shiit! (sorry about my language) If you need to talk, I'm here :) I feel horrible for you! You'll find someone better who loves you I know it ;)
Thank you love :) The relationship is over and I'm glad I'm out of it. I realize that there are better people out there :) Thank you for caring, Luvie!